Hello everyone.
Today is also a short article in my personal diary.
Today, when I looked at SNS, I saw a post that a junior girl was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. There are two exchanges that happened at that time, but this exchange makes me uneasy.
I'd like to have everyone read that and ask if I was wrong.
Read that post.
The content of the post was such that her lover said goodbye after receiving her diagnosis, and she was depressed and self-denied her personality. Looking at that post, I
"It's a personality depending on how you perceive borderline personality disorder."
I made a comment. Then, the reply from her is
"Don't say it because you'll be caught up in that word. If you study properly, you're still there."
Was replied. I have a word for this
"sorry."
I could only return.
I regret having commented. That's true. I can't understand her. She used careless words even though she couldn't understand. I thought so. But she doesn't understand anything. What can't be convinced? I was thinking.
I came to one conclusion in that. I didn't want to say, "I wanted to understand her," but I wanted to say, "There is no such thing as her self-denial." She wanted to stop her from hunting herself down. This is probably an ego. I thought so, but the point of interest in the discussion is different in the first place. I also thought.
She took it about her "borderline personality disorder", but I wanted to say, "You're not bad enough to deny yourself."
It didn't get through well, and I regret that the words I used were worse and less than enough.
What was the correct answer?
Probably there is no correct answer for this event. I think.
Was the correct answer "I don't comment anything"? I thought, but this is close to the correct answer, but it is also a mistake. I think. However, the comments I made were inferior to this. In that respect, I'm definitely a "stupid person who said an extra word." If so, I should be blamed. However, I think that it is different if you think that "ignoring" is the correct answer or 100 points.
But it's true that she made a mistake in her words, and she must have noticed her, so I think I have to reflect on her.
What kind of words would you say in such a case?
Or do you just wait and do nothing?
My idea is inferior, so please let me know.
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